“Literally everyone is breaking up tonight….”
It’s just one of those nights I guess. We all wanted to go out have a good time and it turns into total chaos. Was it the vodka, beer, or running into an ex? I really don’t know, but dang…. tonight is what it is…
We hit the first bar and the chatter begins, ordering our first drinks and strangers getting acquainted between the groups. I’m happy, they’re happy; everyone seems to be getting along just fine. Then the ball drops, someone hates the bar were at and is ready to move on, so those who need to chug the bit of their drink and were off. We make our second stop to a more upbeat club where the music’s poppin’ and those who are confident enough in themselves make their way to the dance floor. Our crowd still seems pleased with each other till Fight One breaks out, girlfriend gives boyfriend too much attention and he’s off he can’t deal with the clinginess tonight…he steps out of that club and leaves her hanging for the rest of the night. Now she’s stuck in the corner with no money, because it’s in his wallet and a cellphone full of hurtful texts. Within the next hour Fight Two comes rolling around, boyfriend won’t dance, but feels free to get “jiggy with it” with girls standing on the out skirts of the dance floor. Not that the girlfriend minds, but he’s usual problem is she doesn’t pay him much attention so when she wants to dance why wouldn’t he follow, instead of lagging behind to hit on her friends…Fight Three, girlfriend feels like boyfriend is causing her claustrophobia, because he doesn’t trust her? Hmmm… I mean chances are he just wanted to dance and the dance floor is packed so yeah he’s going to be right up on you, but you do what you gotta do when you want to cause a fight. Now three couples end the night going to their own beds alone and thinking about the issues of the night and fall asleep with questions and irritation with their significant other.
What will happen tomorrow morning? Is it over? Do we even want to continue this?
Why does this happen? Is it truly just the alcohol, or the commotion of other people? I don’t have an answer for you, matter of fact I was one of these three couples…can’t tell you which one, but bottom line…these nights aren’t fun. If you’re fighting over simple things like that, then why? Is it worth it?